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Overcoming
Personal Fears
Everyone has their own personal beliefs about
relationships. Some women, for example, believe that you
cannot trust men. Some men believe that women only want a
man who has money. Others believe that the only reason men
date is to for sex. What are your beliefs about
relationships? Do you believe that relationships can be
good? Do you believe that men/women are trustworthy? How are
these beliefs affecting you and your relationships? If you
take some time to answer these questions, you will
understand a lot more about yourself and how your beliefs
may be sabotaging your dating life.
Hints, Tips and Tricks
Have you ever become frustrated with someone you're dating
because they don't say what they mean or what they want?
Your partner may think this behavior is 'cute' or
'mysterious,' but dropping hints or beating around the bush
causes more problems than it does fascination. Being honest
with your girlfriend or boyfriend shows that you respect
them and their feelings; hints and tricks and tips are
ultimately hurtful and can damage the relationship
long-term. Be honest with your mate, and you are more likely
to keep them around longer.
Infatuation Versus Love (part 2)
Infatuation says "We must get married right away. I can't
risk losing him/her." Love says "Be patient; donīt panic.
He/she is yours. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are
honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one
another's company unless you are sure it will end in
intimacy. Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be
friends before you can be lovers.
Can I Be In Love This Soon?
The very beginning of a relationship can be intoxicating!
You want to spend every moment with each other, and flaws
are non-existent. Is this true love? At this very early
stage, probably not. You are in the throes of infatuation.
True love generally develops over time. So, don't rush into
love; enjoy the process! Spend time together in many
different situations -- the good times and the bad. And keep
your eyes open for any potential areas of concern. This
infatuation just may become the real thing.
Infatuation Versus Love
Infatuation is instant desire. Itīs one set of glands
calling to another. Love is friendship that has caught fire.
It takes root and grows one day at a time. Infatuation is
marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and
eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts,
unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your
beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely.
It might spoil the dream. Love is the quiet understanding
and mature acceptance of imperfections. It is real. It gives
you strength, and grows beyond you--to bolster your beloved.
You are warmed by his/her presence, even when he/she is
away. Miles do not separate you. You want him near. Be it
near or far, you know he/she is yours and you can wait. |